HEAL BEFORE YOU DEAL

Many People Have Suffered One Hurt Or The Other In Life, Either In Relationship, Business, Finance, Academic, Career Or Ministry, Etc. It’s Impossible To Escape Being Hurt, Disappointed, Or Betrayed By Others, Including Those You Trusted, Among Families, Friends And Colleagues. It's Part Of Human Nature. That Is Why Sometimes, HURT Comes From Placing Too Much TRUST In Someone, Forgetting That They Are Human Being, And Not God Who Will Not Betray Our Trust. The Holy Bible Says, “Woe To Those Who Put Their Trust In Men….” (Jeremiah 17:5). Understand That, You Have The Ability And Capacity To Manage Or Mismanage Hurts, Disappointments, Betrayals, Deceits, Distrust, Etc. To Avoid Getting HURT, Adopt The Principle Of, “TRUST But VERIFY.” While It Is Good To Trust Your Partners, Colleagues, And Associates Due To The Intimacy And Confidence Built Over The Time, It Does No Harm To Always Verify Any Information Or News Given Or Received About Them. Carry Out What I Called, Personality And Integrity Assurance Assessment (PIAA) To Understand The Genuineness Of The Person Before Committing To Trust Him Or Her Wholeheartedly. Know That, If You Trust Without Verification, You May Suffer Hurts, Heartbreaks And Emotional Breakdowns. Truly, Trust Builds Relationships, But Verification Add Peace Of Mind To It! It Is An Unpleasant Experience To Be Hurt Because, The Wound Takes Time To Heal. Even When The Wound Heals, The Scar Is Still There To Always Remind You Of The Hurt. Have You Suffered Hurt Because The Secret You Entrusted With Someone Eventually Came Out; Were You Cheated In Business Partnership; Or You Suffered Hurt In A Relationships And You Decided Not To Love Again? Let It Go! Next Time, Be Wise And Careful To Choose Another Partner! An Adage In My Village Says, “If You Close Your Eyes Because Of Bad People, When Good People Are Passing By, You Won’t See Them.” Your Inability To Heal Of The Wound And Move On Will Affect Your Relationship And Disposition Towards Good People, Because You Would Think Everyone Is The Same! NOT AT ALL! For Example, If You Suffer A Heartbreak In A Relationship, Take Enough Time To Heal, Understand What Went Wrong, Before Dealing With Another Relationship. If You Don't Heal Enough Before You Deal With Another Relationship, Friendship, Business Partner, Etc., You Will Be Emotionally Incapable To Manage It. This Is Because The Aggression Of Past Hurt Might Be Transferred To The New Engagement, Thereby Stopping You From Fulfilling Your Purpose! SO, HEAL BEFORE YOU DEAL AGAIN!

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