Motivation for Success

Let me ask you this question: that partner in your relationship, is he/she your soulmate or foulmate? Unfortunately, most partners in relationships think they have a soulmate, but rather a foulmate. Who is a Soulmate? A soulmate is that one person whose heart, soul, spirit, vision and dreams connect with yours. He is someone whose love is powerful enough to motivate you to meet your soulish needs, to do the emotional work of self-discovery, and self-awakening. It's the one person who knew you and accepted you and believed in you before anyone else did or when no one else would—Kenny Loggins Who is a Foulmate? A “foulmate” is the person who comes into your life by lying and is attracted to you by vague things, connected by selfish interests, and there is no genuineness in his/her commitment to the relationship. He is an opportunist! How would you know if your partner is a “foulmate”? - When your mate cannot motivate you to achieve your dream, but rather antagonizes it....

Your mindsets and perspectives in life can be a source of your limitations. Sometimes we limit ourselves by comparing our parents with others; why was I not born by rich parents? Why was I not born in USA, Canada, UK, etc.? Why is there no one to help me with my dream? Why did I not go to Harvard, Cambridge, or MIT, like others? This list is endless! You can still go to the best school in the world and be ignorant and a fool. You can have rich background, but your back is on the ground and you are not rich in knowledge and wisdom. You can be born and bred in advanced countries, and still become a nonentity and still fail in life! Your background should not limit you! Rise up and carve a niche for yourself! Break out of the circle or jinx! Discover, exploit and explore your inner gifts! Listen to me: If no one had ever achieved greatness, succeeded, became a millionaire, and experienced uncommon breakthrough, gave mouth-watering testimonies, became a celebrity, a national Icon, a game...

In this world, from the time you are born until you get old and die, there are two possible results: leaving a message and just making a passage. A message is a communication containing information, news, advice, requests, political, social, or moral points, and nonverbal behaviours and lifestyles we pass to others. Conversely, a passage is the action or process of passing through from one place to another. In the context of this nugget, I am talking about passage as a transition in life from birth to death. Are you in this world to give and leave a message, by making an impact and leaving an imprint in society or are you just making a passage with no impact or leaving any imprint in the sands of time? When your words, actions, counsel, motivation, lifestyle, giving, and behaviours are impacting life positively, you are leaving a message, a legacy for now and after you leave this world. Understand that, our lives (actions, deeds, words, lifestyles) are a letter (epistles), or message...

You have always heard the saying, “WINNERS NEVER QUIT, AND QUITTERS NEVER WIN.” This could not be further from the truth, but NOT in most cases. Would you be surprised if I told you that QUITTERS are also WINNERS? For quitters to become winners, they must invoke the power of saying NO. This willpower allows them to reject and refuse habits that can destroy their destiny and hinder their fulfillment in life. A survey revealed that 80% of quitters promised to quit a bad habit, but never did, 15% returned to the habit after a short time, while 5% quit the bad habit. Quitting a habit is a long process that can take several attempts, but requires determination, intentionality, patience, and prayers. Remember, Rome was not built in a day! So, how can QUITTERS become WINNERS? - If you quit alcohol, and smoking, you win healthy lungs, liver and kidney, good health and long life - If you quit a toxic relationship, you will win happiness and regain your self-esteem, self-worth and avoid emotion...