A SOULMATE OR FOULMATE?

Let me ask you this question: that partner in your relationship, is he/she your soulmate or foulmate? Unfortunately, most partners in relationships think they have a soulmate, but rather a foulmate. Who is a Soulmate? A soulmate is that one person whose heart, soul, spirit, vision and dreams connect with yours. He is someone whose love is powerful enough to motivate you to meet your soulish needs, to do the emotional work of self-discovery, and self-awakening. It's the one person who knew you and accepted you and believed in you before anyone else did or when no one else would—Kenny Loggins Who is a Foulmate? A “foulmate” is the person who comes into your life by lying and is attracted to you by vague things, connected by selfish interests, and there is no genuineness in his/her commitment to the relationship. He is an opportunist! How would you know if your partner is a “foulmate”? - When your mate cannot motivate you to achieve your dream, but rather antagonizes it. He or she is not a soulmate, he/she is a foulmate - When your partner cannot work on your emotion for self-discovery, and awakening; he/she is not a soulmate, he/she is a foulmate - When your mate cannot shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, he/she is not a soulmate, he/she is a foulmate - When your mate cannot break your heart open so that new light of God can get in, make you so desperate and eagerly want to transform your life, he/she is not a soulmate, he/she is a foulmate - When all your mate knows about is to live large, enjoy life, and spend money anyhow, without thinking and advising you about what future holds for the union, he/she is not a soulmate but a foulmate - When your mate is worldly-inclined, while you are godly-inclined, he/she is not a soulmate but a foulmate - When your mate is secretive and hides things from you, but he/she knows everything about you; he/she is not a soulmate but a foulmate - When your partner should make you feel safe, comfortable, and secure with his or her presence, but rather, you feel insecure and unsafe, he/she is not a soulmate but a foulmate - When your relationship is parasitic and not symbiotic, and your partner cannot invest in your personal growth and development, he/she is not a soulmate but a foulmate - When your partner condones and supports your bad characters and lifestyle without correcting you, knowing it will eventually destroy you; he/she is not a soulmate but a foulmate Therefore, for the sake of your peace, joy and happiness in a relationship, look for a soulmate and not a foulmate. #SoulmateOrFoulmate #RelationshipMatters #WisdomNuggets #IamPOZA

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